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Thursday, March 27th, 2008
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12:12 am - I CAN HAZ JOBZ!!!
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I got hired today by a contracting firm with the government to be a technical editor at the EPA. Sounds impressive, doesn't it? I'm expecting it to be dreadfully boring, and if it's not and is the least bit fulfilling, I will be happily surprised. But gainfully employed again and in the editing field as I had hoped is such a relief!
With the recession as bad as it is, I was getting really scared that I wouldn't get something to keep me and my kitties in my apartment making the monthly rent. I'll be making more than I've ever made before, so I can start saving a bit and get a little security. And I'll be working for the EPA, so something I can feel good about--as time passed I was figuring I was just going to have to suck it up and sell my conscience to work at a Beltway Bandit Corp or Homeland Security or something else distasteful. But I was also getting worried if i could get an office job at all that would pay the rent.
The contracting company I'm working for is minority-owned. My supervisor is a very nice and down to earth Navy vet, who made much of my resume and my attitude--they needed someone to fill in fast and were delighted I could. So yippeee!!!
I start Monday. I'll be working in DC in the Ronald Reagan Building a couple of blocks from the Capitol Building and a block away from the National Mall, so I'll definitely get to see the cherry blossoms this year. And it's right next to the Old Post Office Pavilion, so between that food court and the building's own cafeteria, I'll have fun lunches. So I'll be getting the metro-into-work Beltway experience--it's not a bad commute. Expensive, but will save my car from wear and tear and help the Blue Pearl to live a long full life. People from all different departments work in that building, so it may be a nice opportunity to meet all kinds of people, and that could make the job more exciting. And if the job turns out to be one I don't want to spend too long in, it may give me the opportunity to get a foot in on a better federal job with an actual pension and that good medical plan.
I'm still going to keep bugging the people at the publishing house near me so they will eventually have to give me a job interview--editing with them was the job I really most wanted to get, and is still my dream job due to the subject matter I'd get to work with and the commute (but the people there could always turn out to be batshit, and make it a hell to work at, so you never know.) But for now, yay a good job for me! No more fear of poverty for a while! *booooounce*
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| Thursday, March 20th, 2008
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7:01 pm - Before the LJ Content Strike/Boycott Begins
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The 24 Hour LJ Content Strike/Boycott begins in less than an hour, so I'm signing out of LJ for now.
If you are not participating in the strike, I fully respect your choice. I ask that you respect my choice to strike/boycott by not commenting or replying to any of my entries or comments anywhere on LJ, or clicking on any of my entries or journal pages on LJ until March 22nd.
I don't know if using LJ's message boxes creates statistical use for them or not, so I ask you not to send me an LJ message during this time as well.
If you're participating in the strike, remember that we're not only trying to reduce content to LJ during this time, but reducing the clicks on LJ pages, so don't even peek in at LJ on your browser--you know you can do it! And if you go play on Insanejournal or another journalling service, beware of any links from metafandom posts or others that lead back to LJ and avoid clicking on those. If there's something on LJ you want to copy to another journal site, or that's too long to read in time, download it now.
I'll be posting on my Insanejournal tonight here, so please come over there to play with me. (-:
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| Monday, March 17th, 2008
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11:35 pm - IT'S A 24 HOUR LJ STRIKE ENTRY
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![[info]](http://p-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif) beckyzoole has called for a one day LJ strike.
The terms we're striking for are here.
Keep in mind the strike beings at midnight at the start of Friday March 21st GMT--that's for the UK. For those of us on EST it starts at 8:00pm, Thursday night, March 20th and for ya'll on the west coast of the US it starts at 5:00pm Thursday night, March 20th. You can find the starting time at the major city nearest you anywhere in the world here.
To participate in the strike, don't post, comment, or even open up LJ on your browser during those 24 hours, so that LJ gets no clicks. Come on, you can do it!
Honestly, I have no faith SUP can mend their ways, so this may be a useless piece of activism; however, it's not that hard to do, so I think it's worth a go.
Anyway, marta said El Jay Staff will be doing a post tonight to explain how censoring those LJ interests was a mistake. This ought to be good. *munches popcorn*
Me, I'm considering March 21st GMT to be
SET UP AN INSANEJOURNAL AND BLOG THERE DAY!
In that spirit, here's all the links you need to migrate your LJ to IJ and double post for ever after in order to use one or the other as your back up journal:
To set up a free IJ account go here.
To copy your LJ back entries to IJ use lj-sec or this migration tool created by antennapedia. These will copy all links, and your embedded scrapbook pics from LJ will show up there as well, but none of your comments--no one seems to have the technology for that yet.
Once you have all your back entries copied, you can now double post to both journals using Semagic. snapetoy has a tutorial on using Semagic here.
If you want to use OpenID in posting--this is a way to post to LJ without logging into it--go to mercurychaos's tutorial here.
Here's an interesting post on the state of LJ type platforms discussed at a conference. It's cool to see Squeaky, IJ's administrator, offer info on his intentions for IJ in a comment on that post here. I think I'm getting to really like Squeaky, so yay for a business I can happily support for now.
current mood: still methodically flouncing
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| Friday, March 14th, 2008
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12:22 am - The surf is great at IJ!
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"May?" We MAY criticize you? You damn well got that right, you mealy-mouthed fuckers. Yeah, LJstaff's really pissed me off this time, and it's migration time.
I've heard nothing but good things about Squeaky's handling of IJ, and with 100 icons for an unpaid account, their welcoming of fandom, and no bullshit, I can put up with the ads there and the stupid asylum theme. strangemuses says IJ took to the influx of thousands of GJ refugees without a hitch, so they're definitely doing something right thus far.
The only thing keeping me on LJ now is ya'll. The more of you I can woo over to IJ with me over time, the better. I guess I'll be double posting for the foreseeable future, but I'd love to move my main base over there now. Got to dig up my bookmarks for migrating tools and get my IJ running. Yay 100 icons again!
I just hate generating revenue for folks who do business like LJ is doing, and yes, we are generating revenue for them, even with basic accounts, by creating community. Even this post is helping them with that. I'd just like to see IJ overtake them. And if not Insanejournal, than another text-based networking site catering to epistolatory-types, but right now, IJ looks like the best bet.
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| Wednesday, March 12th, 2008
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11:10 pm - I Haz an IJ! Do U Haz an IJ?
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OK, the latest LJ shenanigans finally motivated me to create an InsaneJournal. I had been meaning to create one since GJ went belly up. So I'm also lavendertook on IJ. Friend me! Friend me!!!!
Who of you have IJ's for me to friend?
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8:21 pm - Another LJ FAIL
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LJ has just abolished a user's ability to create a new basic account.
If you already have a basic account, you can keep basic, but any new unpaid account will now be host to advertisements; i.e., a Plus account. And I assume that means if your paid account established before today lapses, it will return to basic, but that's a big assumption at this point. And the loveliest part is LJ has not announced this.
Does anyone know what this clause under basic accounts means:
* 25 subscriptions for notification of new posts, friends, comments, or events?
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| Friday, March 7th, 2008
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11:29 pm - Friday Night Milli Tribute
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Starting off, here's a pic from 3 years ago of how Milli and Saki got along:
They didn't curl up together ever, but sleeping one inch from each other isn't bad. Once they acclimated to each other after the first 5 months--"acclimate" meaning Saki deciding she didn't have to kill Milli anymore, and Milli learning how to fight like the calico tiger she was and have fun with it, their relationship was pretty sibling-like. Saki is a pushy extrovert, so when Saki pushed in--because Saki always goes where Saki wants to go--Milli alternately shared her space with her as in the above pic, swatted her off, or more characteristically ran away.
Saki was definitely depressed the first week and half after Milli died--perhaps as much due to the lack of leftover food to steal from Milli's perch as missing Milli, and the change in routine Milli's absence entailed. She seemed angry at me as well, perhaps wondering why I didn't bring Milli back home, and was spending most of the night out in the living room. She's gotten back to her usual purry, Stevie Nicks-meowing self the past few days. I haven't noticed a change in Tuxie or Moo, except that Moo has been much more comfortable walking up to and nosing Saki. Maybe she senses Saki's loss, or feels empowered by the absence of the other elder cat who lived with us before she came on the scene.
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| Friday, February 29th, 2008
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11:31 pm - The One Week Milli Picture Tribute
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So as I told you, there'll be pictures. Milli has been gone a week. The missing her is sad, but having since researched a little about cat lung cancer, finding out it hit her at exactly the designated age, and that her suffering could have been so much worse if the disease did the more usual metastasizing in other systems, I feel grateful for how quickly the worst of the disease manifested and that she got to enjoy most of her life, almost up to the very end. So I'm celebrating that.
Mill was one to fix you with a very intense stare:
She had her moods when she wanted to be petted, and would beg me to pick her up and hold her for 10 to 20 minutes at a time, purring, stretching out her paws and dangling them over my shoulder, flexing her toes all the while. But more often she preferred to be near, not in contact; she was rarely a lap cat. She had a habit of fixing that stare at me, and when I'd look back, she'd blink her eyes in that loving kitty way that spoke of approval and adoration. I'd blink back in turn, and we could keep up that exchange for minutes on end. She was quite the blinker of sweet nuthins. (-;
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| Sunday, February 24th, 2008
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12:31 am - M'Lila (Milli, Mil-Mil) Tinuviel (April 16) 1996--February 23, 2008
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M'Lila (Milli, Mil-Mil) Tinuviel
(April 16) 1996--February 23, 2008
M'Lila because she was named after a cool background character on Xena: Warrior Princess. Tinuviel because she spent half her time being an Aloof Elf Princess. April 16th because I brought her home from the DC Animal Shelter on April 16, 1997, when she was approximately one year old.
Beautiful Milli, Queen of My Heart. ("Beautiful Dreamer"--her theme song)
This is the very last picture I took of her. It was this Thursday afternoon; she was on a wool blankie enjoying herself despite labored breathing, purring and making biscuits in the sun, the last little bit there was.
The diagnosis came back Friday morning as lung carcinoma. Yeah, I told her years ago she should quit smoking, but you know how cats are.
( More about Milli )
current mood: grieving
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| Wednesday, February 20th, 2008
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10:45 pm - Milli Update
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After getting Milli xrayed and finding she had a bunch of fluid on the lungs, the vet aspirated her thoracic cavity and removed 90cc of fluid. She sent off a sample to a lab and hopefully we'll know something Friday. Today, I'm taking her off the prednisone and putting her on antibiotics and salix. She lost 3 more ounces in just the last 2 days. Even though she has been eating a little better the last 2 days, it's not enough to keep up with how much she's burning with her lungs pumping so hard, and the steroids have done little to help with that.
The aspiration should have made her breathing easier, but it hasn't very much. She ate well enough this evening for me to get all her medicines in her, and I was really relieved she didn't balk at the Baytril in her food because it's a bit acidic. She's been spending the evening plastered beside me and laying like a wet noodle. Her breathing is better enough that she can rest on her side now. The problem is that when the poor thing gets relaxed enough she wants to curl her head over and lay halfway on her back, and that just makes her pant again.
So here's hoping there's an infection that the antibiotics will take care of or something that is treatable turns up from the lab report. She's enjoying eating and she's enjoying affection and brushing, but she's not going to last long unless we can get her breathing to ease. If it's cancer or something else untreatable, I just keep her until eating and affection aren't satisfying anymore, and then take her in for the peaceful way out of this life.
Saki has been a real champ at shouldering how Milli is getting all the attention and brushing and she truly deserves a medal for that, my cat of constant wanting.
current mood:  tired
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| Tuesday, February 19th, 2008
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10:50 pm - The Milli Watch
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My eldest kitty at 11 years, pretty Milli, in this pic here from last fall, is not doing so well. She started eating lightly a few days ago, then yesterday her breathing got really labored and she got to looking quite frail. So I rushed her to the vet, got her blood works done and got her a dexamethasone (cortisone-like steroid) shot. It took a few hours for the dexamethasone to bring back up her strength, though it hasn't eased her breathing.
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current mood:  worried
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| Tuesday, February 12th, 2008
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11:49 pm - Born to Straddle
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"Yes, I'm fucking comfortable. Why do you ask?"
Poor Saki was trying so very hard to take a nap on the slanted heating vent this afternoon. She gave it her best shot, then gave up after 5 minutes and settled for her goddamn fluffy poodle blanket on the goddamn futon. She is a cat of very strong wants. If I find her on this laptop tomorrow ordering an electric blanket, I won't be surprised.
current mood: amused
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| Tuesday, February 5th, 2008
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11:32 pm - Sisterhood IS powerful, so stop fucking it up already!
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Robin Morgan wrote an endorsement of Hillary Clinton and there are many points she makes that I completely agree with. But with more proof that whiteness can make otherwise brilliant women's brains rot, she tells us,
So why should all women not be as justly proud of our womanhood and the centuries, even millennia, of struggle that got us this far, as black Americans, women and men, are justly proud of their struggles?
Will this meme--that in order to understand feminist oppression and struggle, you must compare it to racist oppression and black civil rights work--just end? How many times do women of color have to say that this shit asks a woman to choose her left arm over her right leg--in this case asking a black women to see her arm as having something that her leg doesn't have? Experience matters, and when you are a white woman and make such comparisons, despite your best intentions, despite what other inclusive statements you make, you make the "we" of feminism a "white we" and you identify yourself with a feminism in which women of color are not at the center, but the margins.
By making this comparison in the above statement, Morgan's original "we," her "our" ejects black women as Other by the end of the sentence. We just went through this crap with Gloria Steinem. If Morgan hadn't been paying attention to what womanist and feminist women of color and white antiracist allies have been saying the last damn 30 years, feminist writers in newspapers, radio, and the blogosphere just posited a pretty good summary in response to Steinem's white blindness.
This compartmentalizing feminism is not my feminism. I wish these iconic white feminists--iconic for good work they have done--do some more thinking about their own whiteness and anti-racist ally work so they do not reinscribe their feminism with a white default. One's rhetoric does matter. Yes, one's rhetoric can be sophistry and lies, but it is also what we use to express how we see the world and reveal where we stand in relation to whom, and for whom, we are speaking. Who your "we" includes matters. A feminism that makes the baseline "we" white is not a feminism of liberation.
And I'm not blaming this crap on HIllary Clinton--she's not the one pulling this divisive shit. But Morgan isn't doing her favors here and she should know better by now.
Me, I'm going to comb through Clinton's and Obama's websites some more before deciding my vote next Tuesday. Or just do an AU write-in (I think my state allows write-ins) for Barbara Boxer, John Conyers, or Sheila Tubbs Jones.
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| Thursday, January 24th, 2008
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11:10 pm - Atonement, or The Beatchez Alwaiz Lye!
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I just went and saw a matinee of Atonement--ugh! Next time I decide to see a film because all the critics love it, remind me that most of those critics have mainstream white heteropatriarchal values that are forsooth yucky unto mine eyes. I'm so stupid not to do my research on the story before seeing a film like this because more often than not they piss me off.
If I knew this was a "poor nice guy falsely accused of rape by those lying bitches" story I would never have gone to see it. Because, you know, that's such an important story to tell over and over and over--how rape is horrible for the menz because menz gets accused falsely of rape. I mean, who cares that one in three or four women (and a percentage of men and significant percentage of transfolk) are sexually assaulted by men, and ALL women live lives constrained by that fact. It's silly of me to think of women as important outside of how they affect men.
Yes, the film is very pretty with very pretty people and a concise narrative; it's just the same old story of how women are liars and ruin men's lives and it's about time those bitches atoned for it. And if those pathetic spinster girls are going to get published, by golly, that's what they should write about if they are to attain tragically sympathetic status.
Thumbs down on this one.
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| Tuesday, January 22nd, 2008
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11:29 pm - Job market jamming
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I applied for a job that I really, really want today, so please cross your fingers for me.
Interest-wise and commute-wise it may be just perfect for me, and I should be a good fit for it, so we shall see. Meanwhile, onto the next application . . . .
current mood: hopeful
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| Monday, December 31st, 2007
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11:25 pm - And now, a new year's message from Moo
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Ms. Moo Brandybuck aka Princess Holstein the Winsome bids you a happy new year
and sincerely hopes you happen upon a spot of sunshine to make your ears glow in the coming year.
Happy New Year, ya'll!
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| Thursday, December 20th, 2007
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11:58 pm - Fall at Greenbelt Lake-Part 4
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More pretty colors at Greenbelt Lake and a happy Eid-al-Adha to those who celebrated it this week. I like the reflections in this pic:
( I can almost remember when the world wasn't leafless and heavily cloud-covered . . . )
I will be happy to see the days start lengthening again next week. I spent my walk around the lake today in my head remembering the details of the dream I just posted about the entry before, speculating about The Hobbit sequel inclusions, and musing on Christine Delphy's theories, the latter two of which I will post about later. It's just been a little too dreary out for focusing on visual details, and I only just recognized a friend when I ran into her around the lake. I do have wonderful bright living room windows here when the leaves drop--just add sunshine--I'm waaaaaiting! Don't make me up my prozac intake, dammit! Until then, I'm enjoying my electric menorah--I broke my old one in the move earlier this year and was very happy to finally find a new one yesterday. And all my pretty xmas lights, that I don't like putting up unless I have my electric menorah up.
Happy Solstice this weekend to all who celebrate it!
And congratulations and good luck to the Lakota Peoples on today's declaration of independence.
current mood: lazy
current music: NPR
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7:05 pm - Flying Dream
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So I remember a dream from last night.
I was showing seawings around a place--maybe my house in the dream, and had to talk to an OC friend. When I came back she was gone, but I thought it might be time for her friend Lisa (another off-stage OC) to pick her up, as she had mentioned. But then I looked to the right and saw seawings in the clutches of The Boss, who was starting to fly out a doorway or window with her, and 2 nondescript skinny girls, maybe a teen and child (also OC's) in tow. The Boss was not completely visualized and I think cartoonish, with a blue cape, broad shoulders and small masked head.
I think my self-commentary while the dream was still going on stated that he did not look like my ex-boss, so he may not be a representation of any particular boss, but he was definitely a representation of my unemployment resentment. Yes, I start psychoanalyzing myself before the dream is over--I was raised by a roving pack of psychologists and social workers, whaddya want?
So I started flying after the villain with seawings in tow as they gained height. BTW, seawings had put on her blue-grayish black wool coat, which I think she really has, before she was grabbed, 'cause its important to put on a coat before you fly. I, of course, was experiencing slow-motion chase syndrome, so I was not gaining on them, but out of the blue flew another OC wearing burgundy tights and a short gold-brown, maybe spotted, fur vest and hat with 1940's or 50's styled gold hair. She flew after them and grabbed ahold of seawings and the girls, which was all it took to free them from the Boss, who flew onward without stopping or even a "Curses!" or anything. I thanked the woman for rescuing my friends, and she was all smiley and sweet, even if her superhero fashion-sense was highly questionable.
Then I noticed seawings and the girls were plummeting down to The City below, as burgundy tights woman wasn't still holding them. I was trying to start to fly down to them, when burgundy tights woman noticed, went "Oops!" smiled, held up a finger, and swooped down to grab them. She waved up and smiled once she had a hold of them again and proceeded to take them down for a slow landing.
I then flew on in pursuit of the Boss. What exactly I was going to accomplish, since I couldn't fucking fly well enough to rescue my friends, I don't know, but on I went in pursuit, which was a cool ending, as I woke up.
Thank You Burgundy'n'Fur Lady, wherever you are!!!!
And I guess it's time I get in touch with seawings.
current mood: amused
current music: Xmas music on WETA driving me fucking nuts--must put on cd
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| Thursday, December 13th, 2007
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5:33 pm - Part I: Thursday Evening Disclaimer
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No one gets to own the discourse on gender and gender identity.
Not transfolk, not rad fems, not liberals, not fundies, not self-satisfied patriarchs, not gender theorists, not neurobiologists and geneticists and the medical establishment, not the clueless on all ends of the political spectrum.
It's shared by all of us: the refugees and the securely buttressed. All are rolled by the tide, in and out again, some with more panache than others.
Just thought I'd get that out there.
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current music: NPR
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| Wednesday, December 12th, 2007
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5:47 pm - Identifying Antisemitism in the Wild: A Field Guide
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I'm not certain why so few people involved are seeing the antisemitism* going on in this thread, so I'm going to try to break down here what I saw and why it was disturbing to me. First of all, here is the passage in question that the commenter, stefaneus, made antisemitic remarks about. It's from an essay by Jewish lesbian singer Alix Dobkin**:
This brings to mind an incident occurring twenty years ago in Europe. At a concert in Zurich I identified myself as Jewish, whereupon a small group of women got up and left the theater. Why? They didn't say, but we can guess.
My deal with myself was that if I agreed to tour Germany and Switzerland it would be on condition that I declare my Jewishness at every show. Otherwise I could not have endured setting foot on those killing fields. But I was as unprepared for the shockingly defensive reaction that statement would provoke in my audience as they were to hear it. Naively assuming that German Dykes were as used to discussing sensitive race issues as we USA veterans were, it never occurred to me how personally they would take this (seemingly) simple declaration. If I hadn't immediately calmed my audience with friendly assurances they would have shut down and shut me out, and by the time I reached Switzerland I understood that going public as a Jew required the following instant affirmations:
1) that I did not believe in God
2) that I did not necessarily support Israel's every action, and
3) that I did not blame any of them for the holocaust
These three disclaimers usually relaxed most of the crowd enough so that they could sit through my show without excessive distress. Passionate English and German post concert dialogues proved wrenchingly difficult, but they moved everyone forward, and we were all glad to have stuck with it.
The passage comes from this site that delphyne_ linked to--and yes, I know the larger focus of that site is controversial, but I will not discuss any of those issues now in order to keep the focus on the particular issue I am addressing here. Now here is stefaneus's comment upon the above passage:
Thank you for burning away my retinas by showing me an American lesbian who accuses German and Swiss lesbians of anti-Semitism because they are, understandably, afraid that someone will play the 'you-did-the-Holocaust' card even though, at that time, none of them were yet even of adult age. Seriously, thank you. And I didn't even got to the core of the article, yet.
(under breath) Stupid American (/under breath)
First of all, we don't have just any kind of American lesbian here, we have a Jewish American lesbian, and for some reason he elides that. If he drew attention to her Jewishness, it would be more clear his reaction was antisemitic, and I suspect that is why he elided it. I also suspect it's himself that he's trying to keep the clarity from, so he doesn't have to recognize this in himself because superficially he knows antisemitism is wrong. But he sure takes offense to Jewish needs to name our history. And that in itself is a form of antisemitism: He elides the specificity of our history and our existence in not making any distinction that this is a Jew, not just an American, who is going into a space that is very threatening-feeling for her for the little reason that 6 million people sharing her Jewish identity were killed there.
Playing "the 'you did the Holocaust' card.
Need I explain that there is a spot on the antisemitism bingo board for "you're playing the Holocaust card?" There is; it is that common an antisemitic attack. A couple of its cousins are the "race card" and the "gay card." To call a Jew's mentioning of the Holocaust a "card" trivializes our need to name the recent trauma in our history, the fact that most all of us, American Jews, as well as European Jews and Jews world-wide, have lost branches of our families in the Holocaust. Many Holocaust survivors are still alive today--we are not even a generation past direct, live, experience. To trivialize this real experience of loss and trauma for Jews IS antisemitism.
However, the thing here is that Dobkin was merely claiming that she was Jewish, a Jew standing on the ground where Jews are missing because they were killed off, and so the commenter is telling us that just mentioning she is a Jew is in itself playing the Holocaust card. He is saying that any mention of being Jewish is an accusation against the Germans and Swiss, and it is offensive to name herself there because it will remind them that their nation killed Jews--so just keep a don't tell policy in place so you don't make the Germans uncomfortable--good one stefaneus. And thank goodness he can't speak for all the Germans today who don't share his defensive antisemitism.
The commenter states with great empathy, and identification which he explains in a subsequent comment, that the German and Swiss audience will "understandably" fear the terrible use of that almighty and mean little card thing, that card thing representing the person in the victimized position pointing out the unjustness of their victimization by that audience's home team (even though all she is doing here is stating she is Jewish). You know, I'm sorry, but on the guilt thing, the feeling bad about what your people unjustly did to another: decent people live with guilt and transform it, by owning it and using it to grow and make amends. It's not a bad thing--like Huey's thinking here in a Boondocks strip from a couple of days ago.
To be proud of your culture, you also have to own the terrible things it participated in. And not deny speech to those to whom the terrible things were done, but to listen and honor them, no matter how fucking tired you are of it already. Because you owe that--you live as you do because our relatives don't. You don't get to decide when we stop talking about it. And to begrudge that, is to re-victimize the survivors. As these women 20 years ago were doing by forcing Dobkin to placate them, and as this commenter did today in sharing in their defensive antisemitism.
This blaming the victim for the guilt you feel towards them, or having the nerve to remind you of that guilt--so not cool. And in this case, so antisemitic. But that's what this commenter is about here. I'm grateful to delphyne_ for being a good ally and calling him on this.
Then in response to this thread, and subsequent discussion of it elsewhere, we have this lovely antisemitic post here from azzy23:
I'm just going to throw this one out there, and you're welcome to unfriend me, or think I'm an antisemite or whatever, but here ya go...
If you ever pull the "You disagree with me! That makes you a Nazi/Anti-semitic" card in a debate in my blog, we're going to have an issue. I'm tired of this one, seriously. Sometimes, and hold on to your socks kids... sometimes Jewish people are incorrect. Sometimes Israel does things which are wrong (in a morals/ethics sense), and pointing out that you don't agree with their take on something does NOT make you a Nazi or an anti-semite, and I won't play that.
I fully agree with her that sometimes Jews are incorrect, and Israel does some really wrongful things she said, soothing her audience, but deciding a Jew calling out antisemitic speech is playing a card is antisemitic to the max, as I've discussed above, but this time the card is in reference to the naming of antisemitic speech, which she is denying to Jews. What we have here in her post is a bigoted, defensive response dismissing a Jew's right to name her oppression. And her antisemitic post even encourages one of her posters to express their defensive racism and complain about ye old race card--hey, collect them all, kids. Yup, it spreads when left unchecked.
So that's the gardens we're weeding here, people. Call them on it when you see it--don't let it go unchecked--someone who can't speak up may be hurting from it.
In another post some time later, I'll get into some of the issues of contention on gender identity, rad feminism, and transgender politics that were the larger focus of the post this thread was a part of. But in this entry, I just want us to focus on the problem of the antisemitism, as expressed in the comments above.
Any questions? Thoughts?
*Oxford and American Heritage Dictionaries encourage the use of a hyphen, as in "anti-semitism", but I don't think it's necessary and am encouraging the language to change here--language evolution: it's a DIY thing. But don't try this on term papers, kids.
**I saw her in concert about 20 years ago.(-:
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